An interesting news article about a 21 day challenge to stop complaining, criticizing, gossiping, and sarcasm.
“Complaining draws all of its essence from negativity,” the 47-year-old Bowen says. “When you complain, you do it typically to attract attention or sympathy. It’s you saying, ‘There’s something wrong with me.’
“You’re sending out this vibrational energy into the universe that you’re a victim, and the universe responds with more negativity.”
He explains it this way: “Complaining is saying, ‘Man, that sucks.’ What changes things is saying, ‘This is not the way I would like it to be. This is how I would like it to be.’ It’s painting a picture or creating a vista to get people to look in that direction. It’s where you want to move toward.”
“When you’re not articulating complaints then they have nowhere to go, and your brain literally stops producing them, and you become a happier person,” he says.
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